She is intelligent, she reads a lot and knows what is going on in the world. She also cares about the environment and wants to make the world a better place. She is always fair and knows exactly what she wants. She is not arrogant, but she is not shy as well. She is the girl, who would be a great girlfriend.
She can be a great friend and a companion to hang with, but for her spending a lot of time with other people is uncomfortable. She might be labeled as anti-social, but actually, she is not anti-social, she just really carefully chooses, who to spend her time with.
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Here are 11 reasons, why girls, who seem anti-social, make the best girlfriends:
1. She is everything but shallow
When she does decide to hang out with you, she does not like to talk about superficial things, but she wants to have deep and meaningful conversations. She cares about you and your opinion and wants to discuss and share important things with you.
2. Her friends are the best people you will ever meet
She does not have a lot of friends, but the ones she has, she has chosen carefully. These people are the ones she trusts and shows her true self to. Her friends are loyal, empathic and worth having in your life.
3. She is not childish
She is intelligent and mature, that is why she does not interact with people, who act silly. She has an opinion on different subjects, and she can explain it well. She is also not afraid to speak her mind and stand for what she believes in.
4. She values loyalty and commitment
Whether it is a relationship or friendship, she wants certainty. She is too wise just to fool around and have only shallow people in her life. She is trying to surround herself with soul mates, who she can connect on a deeper level.
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5. She has the heart for animals
She loves all kind of animals, but especially wild ones because they can live in their true nature. Watching and interacting with animals gives her peace, and sometimes she even feels more comfortable with animals, than with people.
6. She is ambitious and hard-working
This girl is very career-oriented and has big, ambitious dreams. When she wants to achieve something, there is no way to stop her. She values other people, who think the same way and are not only about parties, fame and having fun.
7. She will defend you from people, who annoy you
She is not afraid to speak her mind, especially with someone she does not like that much. If someone is not treating you right, she will tell them what she thinks of it. This may make her more unpopular, but she does not care about these shallow, fake friends anyway and neither should you.
8. She is very honest and blunt
She is not about playing games. She values honesty and realness. When you are in a relationship with her, she wants to be real with you and expects genuine honesty from you as well.
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9. She is witty and smart
You cannot fool her, and she cannot stand people, who try. She avoids manipulative people and the ones who want to bring others down. She can talk about different subjects and carry a conversation with ease.
10. You can use her as an excuse to get out of things
If others have an opinion, that the girl you are dating is anti-social, you can use this as a pretext to get out of uncomfortable situations. You can just say, that she is not interested in this particular event or activity and save your self from unwanted things.
11. What you see is what you get
She is transparent, honest and real. She says what she feels and thinks. She wants somebody, which is interesting, hard-working and caring. And she won’t settle for less. Being with her is a privilege and should be valued every day.
So do not have prejudices. Even if others tell you that this girl is anti-social and weird, get to know her before you judge her. She might turn out to be your soul mate and the only one who truly understands you and connects with you on a deeper level. Do not let her get away.
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