All of us are different. Some people enjoy spending time alone, and others feel very uncomfortable doing it. Here are 8 things, that only people, who like to spend time by themselves, will understand:
1. Eating alone in a restaurant
People, who feel comfortable on their own, do not mind eating out alone as well. They even enjoy it. They believe that the food is an experience enough and they do not need someone else by their side to feel good about it. Others would rather skip a meal than to eat alone. They fear what other people are thinking about them and feel awkward and uncomfortable.
2. Travelling solo
People, who find their own company entertaining, does not have a problem going by themselves. It is easier, because you do not have to consider anyone else and can spend your days exactly as you like. There is also a greater chance to meet someone new if you are by yourself. They are not afraid to travel alone because they know that there is a solution for everything. They believe in themselves enough to know they can handle everything.
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3. Going to the cinema alone
When they want to see a movie, they will go and see it or if they feel bored and want an exciting experience. People, who are comfortable by themselves do not hassle to find someone to go with them the last minute; they do not even think about it. Why go with someone else, if you cannot even have a conversation at the movies. These people do not understand the ones, who desperately need someone by their side when they are watching a film.
4. Staying at home alone
They enjoy their own company enough to remain in home on Friday nights and public holidays. They do not have a fear of missing out because they know that all the events are the same. They are comfortable enough to trust their gut feeling, if they would rather stay at home, then that’s what they do. They do not understand the people, who could not imagine skipping a party or an event. These are the same individuals, who feel the need to capture everything on their social media because otherwise others don’t know that they were there.
5. Talking to themselves
When they have a problem to solve or they need to brainstorm, they do it happily by themselves. Sometimes you just need to say your thought out loud to know if they are any good. Others need to talk to someone and discuss their problems. People, who enjoy being alone do not need a second opinion because they are comfortable with making decisions by themselves.
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6. Healing themselves
People, who are used to being alone, only count on themselves. They do not hope that someone else will rescue them from their problems. These people are staunch individualists, who can handle all life difficulties by themselves. Others do not have that strength to figure everything out on their own. They count on other people to help them through problems. It is not a shame to ask for help, just people, who are extremely independent, rarely do it.
7. Not caring about what others think
People, who are comfortable being alone, do not care what others think of them. They do not need other’s approval to feel good about themselves. They are confident enough to trust themselves and their decisions. This is not a very common feature in today’s world. Most people seek for others approval and advice when making decisions.
8. Having a strong mentality
People, who enjoy spending time alone, usually have a strong mentality. They are very opinionated and know exactly what they want. These people stand up for what they believe, and they do not accept to be mistreated. They do not have low self-esteem, which means they know their value.
These people are hard to find because they are not the most socializing individuals out there. But we all have a lot to learn from them. The first thing would be their confidence and their ability to fix all their problems on their own. It is important to know how to have one by yourself as well. This does not mean that you should not interact with others, but you cannot depend on everyone else all the time as well. Be the person you want to hang out the most.
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