In a male dominated society, there is one woman who stands out and that is the Alpha Female. Alpha here, is used as a metaphor, depicting strength and independence in a woman. An Alpha Woman is independent, entrepreneurial, confident and has the power to lead. It is not only her personality that attracts men, its her persona, her intelligence and intrinsic strength!
It might be intimidating at first to date a strong female, but if you are brave enough to hang around long enough you will soon learn that their strong persona can make them the ideal partner in life.
1. There’s No Messing Around
Ever dated someone whose personality changed drastically when you got to know them? In these cases, you often end up spending time on someone who in reality wasn’t the person you thought they were and it could lead to heartbreak.
With an alpha female, you won’t have any of these problems, because they don’t care enough about what you think to put on a fake exterior and they’re the same person on the first day you meet them as they are three years down the line.
There’s no problem being her authentic self because she’s ok with letting you go if you don’t fall for the “real” her.
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2. She’ll Push You to be a Better Person
An Alpha female can be the best source of support you will ever have. They’ll push you to achieve your goals, without worrying about how it might affect your relationship and has no problem telling it to you straight if you need to hear a few home truths. Alpha female doesn’t have any ulterior motives when it comes to pushing you in the right direction, they just want you to be a success.
3. She’s An Adventurer
Dating an alpha female is a little like getting onto a roller coaster, so buckle up because it’s going to be a fast, exhilarating ride. She’s not waiting around for a guy to get her life started, so when it comes to her career and her downtime she will always be putting in the maximum effort and going that extra mile to improve herself and her life. That’s not a bad attitude to have in a partner.
4. She Doesn’t Need You
A strong, independent woman doesn’t need a man in her life, so if you’re in her life, you can bet it’s because she wants you there. It means you can be completely sure that her affection and love are sincere and she doesn’t expect anything in exchange, except to build a life with you. That’s a pretty amazing quality to have in a girlfriend and if you have ever experienced a needy partner, you will be aware of how it can smother a relationship.
5. There Will Be Less Nagging
An alpha female has no problems solving issues herself, so if you don’t do something you said you would, you can bet she will get it done herself. That means no nagging for weeks about a small job your girlfriend assumes you should do, an alpha female never expects others to take care of her and has more important things to do with her day than whine at her other half.
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6. She Won’t Give Up
If you go through hard times you can bet she will be there to work through them with you. An alpha female won’t give up on you or your relationship until it is really time to walk away so you know that together you can get through most hardships and come out the other side.
7. She’s Dynamite in Bed
An alpha female is naturally confident and has no problem embracing her sexual side. She likes to have a healthy sex life and isn’t held back by some of the hangups other females experience in the bedroom. Best of all, she has no problem initiating sex when she wants it, so you are likely to end up having more bedroom action than usual if you date her. There’s nothing so hot as having your girlfriend pounce on you as you walk through the door, or a quickie before work.
8. She’s No Damsel in Distress
Ever worry what’s going to happen to your girlfriend when she heads out on a girls night, or fear she will get herself into trouble. While that’s natural for any partner, you can be reasonably be reassured that an alpha female can take care of herself in most situations, so can sleep soundly knowing she’s street savvy.
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9. She’s Got Life Sorted
An alpha female tries to stay on her A-game in most situations in life. Whether it comes to her career, social life or even appearance, she usually has things sorted. Everyone has their down days, but you can bet hers won’t last for long.
10. You Couldn’t Ask for Anyone More Loyal
A perfect partner, an alpha female has her boyfriend’s back and will always stand up, support and fight for you. She sees you as a team, working together to build a life together, and this means she will put in every effort she can to make sure it’s the best it can possibly be for both of you.
Even if things aren’t perfect, she will be looking for a way to improve things rather than bolting for the door and don’t expect her to cheat on you either. Passing flattery doesn’t work on alpha females and if she has decided to be with you, there’s not much any other man can do to change her mind. It takes a lot to impress an alpha, so if you two are together you can bet it’s because she’s seen something amazing in you.
