Although all the relationships are different, still there are some standard rules and standpoints, which both partners should have to make the relationship work. One thing is trust. If you are not able to trust the person you are with, there is no future for the two of you. It is also important to take care of yourself first and not to lose yourself in the relationship.
Here are some quotes and standpoints, that everyone should follow, who want to sustain their relationship in a healthy way:
“I don’t care who was before me, as long as I know there’s nobody to me.”
We all have a past. There are usually some mistakes made and some lessons learned as well. You should not care too much, who was your partner with before because this is history. When they are staying loyal to you and do not show any interest in others, you should not worry.
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“If the feelings are mutual the effort will be equal.”
A relationship cannot work if one partner is putting in all the effort and the other one is not. You both need to work hard. If you are the only one, who is making plans and showing interest in being together, then your partner is obviously not that into you.
“We all have that one person that we wasted just too much time on.”
If the relationship is not working, there is no point in trying to fix it desperately. Do not waste your time and energy on a person who is not worth it. We all deserve to be loved and cared for, so find someone, who will treat you right.
“Never beg someone to be in your life. If your love and emotions get ignored, walk away.”
Love can be blind. At first, you might forgive and forget, when he does not treat you right, but this cannot last long. You must care for yourself as well. You cannot expect to be loved if you do not love yourself. So think about your well-being first. The person, who deserves you, does not have to be begged to be with you. He will appreciate every second he can spend with you.
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“Sometimes having a big heart sucks, because you expect everyone to care as much as you and they don’t.”
Being empathic is the most beautiful thing in the world. Of course, it will not always be in your favor, because you will get hurt. But still, be always available for love, because when the right person comes along, they will appreciate your big heart and will love you back the same way.
The most important thing is to never give up on love. Love can hurt and make you feel terrible, but it is also the most amazing feeling in the world. Being able to share your life with a soul mate is something all of us deserve. The tricky part is finding the right partner, who will share your views and understandings on how to love and be loved.
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