Most of us want to be in a relationship and cannot really imagine a life alone. But don’t rush with it. Don’t settle for less than perfect. Don’t just get into a relationship if you are not 100% sure of the person. Find the deep true connection before committing to someone.
Everyone deserves the absolute best – the person who will make you laugh and loves you unconditionally.
Don’t just go into a relationship wasting your time with a random partner, wait until you find the one. Usually the person, who is not fully committed will cause more problems than happiness to you. This extra stress is not necessary nor healthy. Choose the person who will stand up for you and who helps you heal your wounds.
Always choose the person you can count on. It is very important that the other one will stick with you through good and difficult times – not only for the fun and exciting times.
Don’t rush with committing to someone, be opened to different people and experiences. Only this way you will know exactly who is the right one for you. And when the right one will come along, you just know. You can feel it in your guts. One hint to meeting the one is that you start to imagine a whole life with them – raising kids, growing old, buying a house.
And you also want to introduce that person to your close ones. You feel comfortable and safe with them.
The most important thing in a relationship is definitely trust. No relationship can work without trust. You both need to be completely honest with each other and not to be afraid to show feelings and emotions. You have to count on each other and not let the other one down.
A relationship works between two people – and both need to be 100% in and give their everything to it to make it work.
The relationship needs to be a priority.
Second most important thing is the way you treat each other. You need to be treated with respect and care. The person, who you decide to spend your life with, must understand what a privilege this is and treasure you every day.
And you must do the same with them.
Everyone deserves the relationship, that actually makes them happy and feel safe. Do not be with someone not worthy of your love and attention. It is sad to think how much time and energy is sometimes spent on the wrong persons.
And also how many good opportunities have been missed, because one is stuck in an unhappy relationship. The only possibility is to understand your situation and change it. Always remember that every person, experience, relationship teaches us about life and about ourselves.
So even if it did not work out, it wasn’t a complete waste of time, because you grew as a person.
The most important thing to remember is that do not jump into a relationship fast just to be in a relationship. Find the person you truly connect with, who cares and treasures you and makes you feel beautiful, safe and happy.
This person is worth waiting for.
