Guys, who run after different girls and get bored easily are not real men. They need to grow up and understand that relationships need work and are not always fun. When you lose the spark, you need to work on it, not just give up and find a new one.
It takes a real man to realize that one woman is enough.
When you are with the right person, the same one is sufficient. You need to be able to be yourself with them and love their flaws and mistakes as well. In a healthy relationship, the partners do not try to change each other but grow together.
The best relationship is the one where you can act like lovers and best friends at the same time.
This means you can be silly and goof around without losing your passion and attraction towards each other. Making jokes and having fun and also kissing passionately at the same time is the best formula for a perfect relationship.
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A life partner is someone who knows that you’re not perfect but treats you as you are.
It is all about empathy and compromise. We all have our flaws and negative sides, but you need to accept them and learn to live with them. Don’t try to look for a perfect person, because you are not flawless yourself. Find someone, whose down side does not bother you that much.
If you are not willing to love someone through their struggles, you don’t deserve them during their joys.
This is similar to the last statement. Relationships have ups and downs and you sure as hell do not deserve someone at their best when you cannot handle their worst. You need to be able to count on each other and have support when times are hard.
You deserve someone who tells you that “you are the best thing that ever happened to them” and they mean it.
Be with someone who actually appreciates you. Do not settle with a person, who only sees your flaws and criticizes you. When your partner does not value you, he does not deserve you. Find someone, who will tell you every day, that you are the best thing that has happened to them.
No one ever gets tired of loving; they just get sick of waiting, assuming, hearing lies, saying sorry and hurting.
Love is blind, at least in the beginning. So at first, you might get away with some bad things, but this does not last long. Everyone has their limits. Everyone gets tired of being lied to, waiting for someone all the time and not being considered into plans. Even if they still love you, they just cannot handle your behavior. So appreciate the one you are with and don’t make them question the relationship.
The best feeling in the world is knowing that you mean something to someone.
It is important for everybody to feel special. The best feeling in the world is to know that you are the last thought on someone’s mind before they fall asleep and the first thought in the morning when they wake up.
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Sometimes the love of your life comes after the mistake of your life.
Life is full of lessons. Some lessons are positive, and some hurt a lot, but they are all valuable. You might find the love of your life after you have been hurt many times. Do not ever give up or close yourself to love.
Date your girlfriend regularly. Especially after you marry her.
Do not stop the flirt and going out even if you have been together for a long time. Find the spark, get dressed nicely and go out on a date. It is, of course, easier after a long day to lie on the couch and eat take-out food, but it is important to work on that sparkle and fall in love with each other every day even more.
Build a friendship before marrying someone. Marry your best friend.
It is important that you can fully trust the person you are with and that you can be yourself with them. Be honest and open with your partner, share your worries and your happiness. Be your weird self and talk about your deepest fears. Only then you will find out if you are meant to be together.
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A good relationship means understanding each other and feeling that this is enough for both of you. The most important thing is, to be honest, and tell your partner when something does not work for you because most of the things can be fixed.
Find the love of your life and truly appreciate them every day!
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